Let’s get some things straight first before getting any further with this subject.
1) I believe that sex has nothing to do with religion. If religion is supposed to be spiritual and enormously heavenly, then I don’t think god’s religion will be very trivial to include sex in 60% or more of its content. If that’s the case, then I completely disagree. Sex is included in one’s freedom. It is your ultimate choice to have sex or not have sex, but don’t blame it on religion.
3) There is nothing called ‘’loosing one’s virginity’’. What do you exactly mean by ‘’loosing’’ ??? What have I lost ?? It should be more like ‘’gaining control over your body’’ because no one should frame me under the whole ‘’hymen/virgin’’ criteria !
Being a virgin or a non virgin is no one’s business. It’s my body and it shouldn’t be shamed by anyone. What do they say ? ‘’only god will judge me ‘’ ?? There you go !
4) If you believe that one is free to have sex, but don’t believe in sexual freedom and orientation, then you’re simply another narrow minded hypocrite. If you think that gay and lesbian people are disgusting then you’re an ass. And that’s that ! Sorry the world isn’t up to your double ass standards ! I won’t argue with you politely because your thoughts are already offensive.
5) Most Egyptian men are not open minded/ pretend to be/ patriarchal minded. Which gets us to the main deal :
I consider the Egyptian society one hell of a hypocrite society, among all the other Arab societies for certain. They hail all the religious slogans, care for certain images, hold on to ignorant traditions, yet, they do all ‘’sinful’’ things in secrecy . If you open FB and check all the Egyptian sex pages, you’ll find that there are so many of them !! Beyond hundreds of pages with thousands and thousands of fans !! I checked a page of them, the wall of the page is basically full of horny obsessed men who ask for bitches ‘’sharameet’’ to have phone sex or meet in secret ‘’b sereya tama’’ and for girls who want to stay virgins, those men will have everything pleasurable with them ‘’bas htb2y bent bnoot brdo’’ but you’ll still be a virgin. Speak of absolute hypocrisy and disgusting attitude ! So you girls can do whatever you want, as long as he doesn’t put his dick in so you can get married and have a life based on lies with your naïve husband who may as well have been lying to you and used to do this shit with other girls before marriage.
Hello ?? The hell is this ! This is considered the norm btw !
Can I trust you ?
So after proving that our society is rotten with lies and fake images, and after totally believing and accepting one’s sexuality and one’s freedom to have sex or not have sex, what’s next ?? The main problem is that we live in this society, so basically we interact with such drained brain washed mentalities, and hence trusting someone and having the same understanding would be a difficult issue. Men here consider having sex with a woman like conquering an undiscovered land. And if they’re in a relationship and having sex regularly, when they think of getting married , the option of marrying their ‘’un virgin’’ girl friend is out of the question. They should marry a virgin instead because of all the shallow and narrow minded reasons you could ever imagine.
But the main reason would be that they fear women who can take control of their sexual needs. Those men are afraid of women and they need subordinate women to mold easily.
That’s why you’ll find lots of girls who believe in the freedom to have sexual activity, but are hesitant due to the unfortunate existence of those men in the society. It would hurt emotionally to be dumped by a man simply because he ‘’nailed’’ me. The stupidest thing on Earth, yet the most heartbreaking.
To Be Continued ….